After about an hour or so when I talked with my daughter,
I rang him, he was in a shopping center or somewhere busy,
I asked him could he talk, as I wanted a conversation, he
knows when I say, I want a conversation, there is either a
nag or a cry coming, in this case I guess he would have
been right on both counts!

I kinda went right for the jugular with him, said why
had he told the kids that he was moving to whore valley
and yeah I may have actually said those words, anyway,
why was he telling them without discussing it with me
either before or after he had told them, he told me
I never said that, I said are you for real, are you
telling me two kids young adults, both heard you say,
the same thing, and you never said it, or are you saying
they are liars.

No, Im saying they picked me up wrong, I never said I
was moving, {picked him up wrong unbelievable, but I
did good, I held my temper), I said they didnt pick you
up wrong, you said you were going over in the next few weeks
and when you were there you were sussing out accommadation, with
a view to moving there. Now the BS that came outta of him,
well it just pisses me off big time, I didnt mean I would be
moving soon, maybe I will be moving nearer the end of the year,
I think I could manage better there, its cheaper to live there.

So why would you need to suss out somewhere to live anyway,
wouldnt you be moving in with your whore, Not necessarily,
I didnt say I would be going to her, so I asked him,
why would you move to Germany, abandon your kids, leave
them behind, if you werent going to whore, why would you
do that. I would not be leaving them or abandoning them,
I would be there for them, jeez he was actually outraged, at
the suggestion, So I told him, oh yeah, and if your son is sick
in college again, I can call you if Im in work to go pick him up,
and if one of them has an appointment and Im working I can call
on you to bring them, cop on will you.

Noone wants here I am on my own, yada yada, I guess, its
all about him still. The conversation went on a bit, I wont bore
you with the details. He says he is going to clarify to the kids
on sunday that he is not going anywhere for the moment,
I wanted to hit him, but whats the point he is not listening,
he has removed himself from me, and I guess from them too.
So I left it at that.

I told my daughter what he had said,
well just the general gist of
it, that they may have picked him up wrong,
her reaction was pretty
much similar to mine, NO I DID NOT,
he is an asshole, and this time
I didn't correct her language.

My son, firstly said, oh well maybe I did,
but I dont think so, then
when we spoke about it again, he said, you know
what Im not really bothered
anyway, what difference does it make he is not really
interested in us anyway.
I tried to tell him he was, he just got it arseways sometimes,
and he looked at me and said, mam, sometimes, its alltimes,
I have not heard from dad since
last saturday when he was here and today is saturday again,
he forgets about
me until he is due to come again.
I didnt know that I thought he had
gotten better at the contact.

Just then the phone beeped and it was him,
telling my son he would be in
tomorrow to see them, and hopefully do something with them.
He laughed, and said right on cue dad, to my shame
I said speak of an ass,
and he is sure to pass.